Instamaxx – The Sex Advisor

Instamaxx works better if you maintain your equipment in good working order! How about some other ways to improve your sex life?

ViagraTM is our newest street drug – completely legal and very successful. But…it’s costly, takes planning and comes with potentially serious side effects. Read Dying For A Hard-on?

Do the other guys in the locker room have you feeling inadequate? Is bigger better, or even possible? Read Penis Envy?

Anti-Aging Advice For Your Sex Life

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It’s not uncommon for men to lose some of their potency as they get older. Many cultures saw this as a sign that one’s life force was being depleted. They believed a man had a certain amount of “seed” and that it should be used sparingly in order to preserve longevity.

Of course, we now know that a healthy man will continue to produce “seed” until the day he dies. Unfortunately, the “plow” with which we prepare the field seems to wear out before we run out of seeds to sow. Thus, the Viagra generation. The problem with Viagra is that it takes a lot of planning, comes with mild to severe side effects and can be very dangerous when used with other substances. See the related story “are you dying for a hard-on?”

Some other cultures have come up with some wonderful methods for increasing potency in a more holistic, natural way. Here are a few things you can try…


Yoga can produce profound results for everything from back pain to reduced stress, but the biggest comment from men in their 40s and 50s is how they feel like they are 20 years old again. Many claim that they can go from having sex with their partner once a week to once a day. The yoga poses and breathing can really get energy moving again, and one of the first places many people notice it is in their sex drive.

Perineum Flexors

A lot of men spend hours at the gym trying to beef up their bodies so they can be sexy, but fail to exercise the most important muscle of all. The perineum is the point between the scrotum and the anus. According to the Vedic scriptures of India, this is where the kundalini energy enters the body. Kundalini energy is what “puts the air in our tires,” so to speak. The more open we can make this area, the more energy gets pulled in and thus the more intensely we get aroused.

To exercise this area, lie on your back with the soles of the feet touching; let the bent knees drop toward the floor. Now begin to squeeze and release the perineum about 50 times. If you are having trouble isolating this muscle, imagine pulling the testicles back toward your anus. Each contraction should take about one second as should each release. Although you should feel immediate results, you should do this daily to really keep the pilot light on.


Several traditional Asian cultures use genital massage for men to improve stamina, manly vigor and the length and strength of the penis. In Malaysia, this massage is called Urut Tenaga Batin (inner energy massage) and is a favorite with gay men, cause, well, it feels good, too! According to traditional belief, you shouldn’t cum as a part of the massage, since that will sap your manly vigor – how many men follow this rule remains to be seen. You can get instructions for this massage when you purchase Duroil, a special herbal massage oil formulated to enhance the effects of Urut Batin. Duroil and exercise can increase the size of your penis – safely and naturally.

Vitamin Supplements

Deficiencies in zinc and vitamin B-6 have been associated with some cases of impotence. Try taking a multivitamin to make sure you have all the vitamins and minerals you need to keep your bits and pieces in working order. It is a bad idea to overdo it with supplements, although most will not hurt you if you take too many, your body will simply disregard them.


This is the least popular suggestion, but when you slow down sexual behavior you can have a more rich and full experience when you do do it. This is consistent with the eastern practice of Bramacharia or “moderation of life force.” By moderating our sexual activity (not to be confused with denial), we can cultivate a more satisfying expression of that energy and frequently overcome the impotence.

Note: Impotence can be a symptom of other problems in the body, such as diabetes. It is important to discuss this and all health issues with your doctor. Also, please be sure to speak with your doctor if you are on any medications. Sometimes herbs and supplements can have an adverse reaction to one another.